Why choosing the right partner is not enough
When I was a child, I absolutely adored fairytales. Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Snow White were my heroines, inExplore
Why Christian Marriages Fail
Marriage was designed by God to be a lasting, fulfilling union between two individuals totally committed to Him andExplore
For Husbands Only: How to have a more sexual wife
Research has shown that 80% of men are more sexual than their wives. There are of course some women whoExplore
When work and family collide
Work is a blessing. One of the first things that God did when He made man was to giveExplore
How to change your spouse
‘How can I change my spouse?’ This is a question that frequently comes up during Q&A sessions in myExplore
How to recover from the trauma of infidelity
Infidelity can present itself in many forms – pornography, online flirting, emotional intimacy with a colleague at work, opportunisticExplore
Adultery: A fool’s game
It’s not often that I title my articles in such a pointed manner; I usually favour a subtler approachExplore
The danger of a settled marriage
The phrase ‘settle down’ has become synonymous with the concept of getting married. The sentence, ‘When are you goingExplore
The legacy of a father
My father in law passed on a few days ago, on Friday 19 August 2016, at the age ofExplore
When two becomes three
The moment when a first child enters a family is simultaneously a moment of intense joy and extreme pressure.Explore
Two power habits of the best marriages
What separates good marriages from great marriages? What makes the difference between an acceptable marriage and a mutually satisfying,Explore
How to boost your sex life in marriage
Mutually satisfying sex is a crucial aspect of a happy marriage. Sex was created by God to be aExplore
Will you love your spouse in ten years’ time?
You might be wondering whether this is a trick question. ‘How can I possibly know what will happen tenExplore
What primary school taught me about relationships
Like most adults, I must confess that I don’t remember much of what I was taught in primary school.Explore
How to build trust in your relationship
Trust is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. Without it, the most promising relationships falter. It sets the parametersExplore
Four things your wife needs from you
Women are unique and so are their needs. What you need most from your wife is not necessarily whatExplore
Four things your husband needs from you
It doesn’t take an expert to know that men and women are very different. What we often don’t payExplore
What to do when you are no longer in love with your spouse
I listened intently knowing that he was about to drop a bombshell. There was strained silence at the otherExplore
Why couples really fight over money
Money is mentioned in most reputable surveys as one of the top three reasons why people divorce. Often, theExplore
Three questions to ask before marrying someone
Choosing to marry someone is potentially the most important decision you can make in your life, next to theExplore
Does marriage still work?
Statistically speaking, there are more divorces now than at any other time in recorded history. It is estimated thatExplore
What is your family vision?
Every family unit formed by God is empowered to impact our world. That sounds like a bold statement toExplore
Eliminating the four predictors of divorce from your marriage
What are the signs of a couple likely to end up divorced and what can be done to turnExplore
Why domestic abuse is never right
It was just after midnight and I settled into bed anticipating a good night’s sleep after a very busyExplore
Unhealthy Soul Ties: What they are and how to break them
Do you know someone who is caught up in a relationship which they know and confess is not goodExplore
Raising children who are passionate about God
As parents, we have the unique privilege of being the first point of connection that our children have withExplore
How to raise children who are God-chasers
The greatest legacy you can leave your child is not money or a house, jewellery, shares or the familyExplore
How not having your way could transform your marriage
What a wonderful world it would be if we all did not insist on having our own way. WarsExplore
Why words matter in a marriage
Words, words, words! Imagine for a moment what our world would be like without words; a silent wordless world.Explore
Seven signs of a toxic friendship
God designed friendships to build us up and strengthen us but toxic friendships can be damaging to our long-termExplore
