You too can have a long, happy marriage
On 6 January 2018, my husband and I celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary. The time seems to have flown!Explore
Is your spouse your dream-maker or your debtor?
I have been married for over 21 years and I can honestly say that I am more in loveExplore
Does physical attraction matter?
Does physical attraction matter? This is a question I frequently receive in various forms from men and women tryingExplore
When will you marry?
I grew up in a world before video games and on-demand TV when children actually played outside with friendsExplore
Are you focusing on the ‘right’ thing?
Marriage is a delicate balance of rights and responsibilities. It takes both working in harmony for a marriage toExplore
How to refresh your marriage
Where did all the excitement go? How did you lose the wonder of being married to the love ofExplore
21 years married and still in love
I can still vividly remember the buzz and excitement I felt this time twenty-one years ago. My heart wasExplore
How assumptions can improve your marriage
When your spouse upsets you, what goes on in your mind at that moment? When the love of yourExplore
Why choosing the right partner is not enough
When I was a child, I absolutely adored fairytales. Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Snow White were my heroines, inExplore
For Husbands Only: How to have a more sexual wife
Research has shown that 80% of men are more sexual than their wives. There are of course some women whoExplore
How to change your spouse
‘How can I change my spouse?’ This is a question that frequently comes up during Q&A sessions in myExplore
When two becomes three
The moment when a first child enters a family is simultaneously a moment of intense joy and extreme pressure.Explore
What to do when you are no longer in love with your spouse
I listened intently knowing that he was about to drop a bombshell. There was strained silence at the otherExplore
Does marriage still work?
Statistically speaking, there are more divorces now than at any other time in recorded history. It is estimated thatExplore
How to double your satisfaction in marriage
If you are reading this, perhaps your interest was piqued by the bold claim in the title. Maybe youExplore
Three red lines that could save your marriage
A red line is a boundary or limit which should not be crossed. It figuratively represents a point ofExplore
How to eliminate avoidable conflict in marriage
A certain degree of conflict is good and healthy in a relationship. However, if your marriage is one longExplore
The secret to sexual fulfilment in marriage
Sex – everyone is thinking about it but no one wants to talk about it. The reticence many couplesExplore
What your husband wishes you knew about him
Your man wants to be your hero. Many boys identify with superheroes like Superman and Spiderman when they areExplore
How to weather a storm in your marriage
Storms come to every marriage at some stage, and they come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. NoExplore
How to tackle loneliness in marriage
Isolation in marriage is real. It manifests itself in many ways – living with someone but enjoying no togetherness;Explore
The secret ingredient of enduring marriages
‘With me it’s all or nothing. Is it all or nothing with you? It can’t be “in between” ItExplore
The courtship that works
If handled properly, courtship can exponentially increase your ability to succeed in marriage. I favour the term courtship becauseExplore
Principles for healthy in-law relationships
Look out for the first part of this post, ‘How to build healthy in-law relationships’. Separation The first pronouncement GodExplore
Are you a Giver, a Taker or a 50-50 Lover?
Stephen Covey is credited with introducing the metaphor of an emotional bank account in his book, The 7 HabitsExplore
Five ways to recognise your soulmate
A group of kids was asked what they thought about how to decide who to marry. 10 year oldExplore
You don’t need to be perfect to be married
Do you ever find yourself wondering why you are still unmarried? Perhaps marriage has been a goal of yoursExplore
Before you say ‘I do’…
Many years ago I read a book by Jack and Carole Mayhall titled, ‘Marriage Takes More Than Love’. ThisExplore
