Better relationships start here.

I’m Tomi Toluhi, and I help couples build strong, loving, and lasting relationships. Whether you’re newlywed or have been together for decades, I'm here to equip you with the tools to foster intimacy, handle conflict, and communicate effectively.

Better relationships start here.

I’m Tomi Toluhi, and I help couples build strong, loving, and lasting relationships. Whether you’re newlywed or have been together for decades, I'm here to equip you with the tools to foster intimacy, handle conflict, and communicate effectively.

Better relationships start here.

I’m Tomi Toluhi, and I help couples build strong, loving, and lasting relationships. Whether you’re newlywed or have been together for decades, I'm here to equip you with the tools to foster intimacy, handle conflict, and communicate effectively.

I believe that your relationship was meant to flourish, but without the right foundation, it’s easy to get lost in unhealthy patterns. You may feel frustrated by communication breakdowns, growing distance, or unresolved conflicts—wondering if things will ever improve. My resources and coaching provide practical solutions for these challenging issues.

From breakdown

to breakthrough.

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Is money getting in the way of your connection?

Money is one of the biggest sources of tension in relationships, often leading to misunderstandings, stress, and conflict. The way you and your spouse view and handle money can be drastically different, creating a communication barrier that feels impossible to overcome. My free quiz will help you understand your unique approach to finances and how it differs from your spouse’s. 

Success Stories

" Tomi's talks are incisive and practical, lots of take home messages to act on In addition it made us see key areas of previous disagreement and how to overcome them."


Rev (Dr) Osagie Joe Omofuma

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"Tomi’s marriage coaching saved my marriage from hitting rock bottom. Today, my marriage is seven years old still counting. I would highly recommend her work to anyone looking to strengthen their partnership."


James Samuel

"Tomi has helped me place a lot of difficult things in perspective, which could have cost me our marriage, I’m now enjoying being happier with my wife with a better-equipped toolbox to work from. Well recommended."


Michael Mingoes

"Tomi saved my marriage by changing my perspective around things I saw in a negative light. "


Tineal de Wet

"Tomi helped me to learn my money language and how it relates to my partner... we felt it was a timely message which would help strengthen our marriage."


Tuny

" Tomi's talks are incisive and practical, lots of take home messages to act on In addition it made us see key areas of previous disagreement and how to overcome them."


Rev (Dr) Osagie Joe Omofuma

"Tomi’s marriage coaching saved my marriage from hitting rock bottom. Today, my marriage is seven years old still counting. I would highly recommend her work to anyone looking to strengthen their partnership."


James Samuel

Latest Media

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Questions to ask before and after you say 'I do'

By Tomi Toluhi • March 22, 2025
The decision of who to marry is potentially one of the most important decisions you will ever make in your life. Who you marry will significantly impact upon the outcome of your life - who you become, what you can accomplish and how fulfilling your life will be. Here are six crucial questions that you should ask before and after you say "I do."
Tomi Toluhi on the Analytic Money Personality

The Analytic Money Personality and the Security money language

By Tomi Toluhi • March 22, 2025
Welcome to the world of the Analytic where money means security. Saving and planning for the future are the focus of the Analytic’s financial agenda. Money is seen as a means to protect them and their loved ones from life’s difficulties and prepare for the future.
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The Amiable Money Personality and the Love money language

By Tomi Toluhi • March 22, 2025
Welcome to the world of the Amiable where money means love. Relationships and people are the focus of the Amiable’s financial agenda. Money is seen as a means of expressing love and affection to others.
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