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Dive into a collection of books designed to transform the way you approach love and relationships. My books offer practical wisdom, heartfelt stories, and actionable steps to help you navigate the complexities of love. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, there’s something here to inspire, equip, and empower you to build relationships that truly thrive.


My books


Dive into a collection of books designed to transform the way you approach love and relationships. My books offer practical wisdom, heartfelt stories, and actionable steps to help you navigate the complexities of love. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, there’s something here to inspire, equip, and empower you to build relationships that truly thrive.

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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

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Perinatal

Mental Health

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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

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Perinatal

Mental Health

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Get Real: The Myths & Realities of Finding & Keeping Love

All you want is real love. You’re not alone. We all do, whether we admit it or not. In order to experience real love we must be prepared to get real about love. Our concept of love will determine our experience in love relationships. Get Real uncovers nine myths about love and relationships which we have held on to tenaciously, and confronts the reality of loving like God intended. This book will help you successfully navigate through the single season by uncovering and celebrating your uniqueness, quickly eliminate distractions and identify God-given relationships, heal from heartbreak by using the lessons learnt as fuel for your future and build an enduring love relationship that will go the distance. What myths have you believed? It’s time to get real.


Get Real places at your fingertips tried and true wisdom to help you:

  • Redefine singleness
  • Take charge of your sexuality
  • Locate the love you desire
  • Recapture reality in your relationships
  • Find healing for brokenness in your heart
A woman is standing on a ladder with a cloud in her head.

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Learn more →
A woman is sitting in a chair talking to another woman.

Perinatal

Mental Health

Learn more →

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Learn more →

Perinatal

Mental Health

Learn more →

One: Launch a New Love Affair with your Spouse

One-ness. That’s what you wanted when you said, “I do.” You are looking for connection, commitment, and a marriage that truly works. You want to be understood and loved for who you are and to give that same gift to the one you love. That’s all you ask. That’s why you got married.


Somewhere along the line—six months, five years, or ten years later—we all come to the same shocking realization: oneness is not a natural consequence of marriage.


Oneness is achievable. It just requires an intentional pursuit through our daily thoughts, words, and actions. In One: Launch a New Love Affair with Your Spouse, Tomi Toluhi breaks down this journey of intentionally seeking intimacy with your spouse into simple, actionable ideas that can launch you into a new experience of togetherness as a couple and help you fall in love with each other again—permanently. “I do” is not the end… it is only the beginning.


This book is available at live events and conferences.

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